I’ve probably been a little more introspective of late. I guess it’s because part of my life, my corporate life, is dieing as of May 31st. I’m leaving corporate America to chart my own course and control my own destiny. It’s exhilarating, like a 5 mile run, and just as exhausting for me to think about. I guess it’s also because I lost a mentor and friend recently, and it’s caused me to re-examine who I am at my core.
Recently my friend Stacy Snook at 500 Days of Stacy asked a question that touched my heart, and I knew I had to share the question, and my answer, with you here:
…what would you say to the people in your life today, if you knew you wouldn’t be able to talk tomorrow?
What would I say if I knew it would be the last words I would ever say?
I’d have to say: “I love you!” to a few people, and I’d be sure to record it so every time someone I wanted to share it with, I would press play, and that person would know that I really did love them.
If I had a little more time, I’d probably include “I appreciate you.” “Thank you.” And “I’m sorry.”
What would YOU say if you had only a few words left to say? Who would you say them to?
What are you waiting for? Say it NOW, say it LOUD, and let them know.
Don’t wait for it to be too late.
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My mom died a couple of years ago and I was 4,500 miles away. I’d been back a few times when she was sick, but my timing sucked as it was only 2 weeks after my previous visit. I had chance to tell her how much she meant to me, unlike my dad who had a stroke at 79 when he seemed fit and healthy (he was still working in his own business). I did tell him when he was in hospital, but sadly I have no way of knowing if he heard me.
Wow Tim, what a powerful story. So glad you let your mom feel your love. Though you’re not sure about your dad, I have no doubt he felt your presence and all the love you had for him.
Thanks for sharing your heart with us.
We have been in that situation where my husband couldn’t talk for close to 9 months while he was on a ventilator. It was hard because there was so much he wanted to say and that was a wake up call for us. Now a day doesn’t go by where we don’t express ourselves to the people around us and tell them how much we really love, appreciate and respect them.
Good for you guys Shannon. Glad you could wake up before it’s too late.
Big hugs to you both!
Phil. I’m humbled that anything I would write would inspire you. You also inspire me, in many ways. I appreciate the opportunity I’ve had to get to know you.
If this was the last chance I had to communicate with you, I’d say: I’m proud of you for doing what many people dream of, but never have the courage to do. I’m greatful for your friendship and inspired by your passion and optimism. I’d also give you a great big giant hug… because that’s how I roll.
Stacy – you’re a star and an inspiration. I read your stuff all the time, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your willingness to bare your soul so I can learn from you.
So glad we can be friends and learn…together!
Great message today Phil.
Thank you Scott. Glad it hit home with you.
The spoken word is not as much of an issue in my house since we all know and use sign language. What I would do is sing to my children. For some reason, they love their mommy’s horribly off-key singing — find it comforting, even!
Wow Phil. I’m speechless…really I am. I’ll be back. I have to talk to some people.
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