Comments on: 90 Second Relationship Rule

By: Brittainy

Brittainy — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 00:04:34 +0000

That is great to read…I am about to pick up my boyfriend at the airport after 2 weeks of him being back home with his family and this was a nice reminder for me to make the most out of the moment and cherish the time that I see him, not only in a short while, but long after that. Thanks for the good words!
Brittainy

By: Stuart Baker

Stuart Baker — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 01:59:07 +0000

VERY powerful, Phil, and so easy to lose the potent, important connections in the moment. Easy to lose 90 second opportunities for richness and love. What a difference re-focusing can make.

Thanks.

Stuart

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By: Arlene

Arlene — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 06:53:13 +0000

It is a good rule of thumb. Stops you from taking the most important part of your life for granted.

By: Inspired

Inspired — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 03:31:23 +0000

Helen (commenter no 2),

Now I know why many people love their dogs more than their spouse.

By: Melody Campbell, Building Your Coaching Business

Melody Campbell, Building Your Coaching Business — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 23:19:16 +0000

That was a very moving video – so true for family, friends and close loved ones. And, I wonder what would happen if we treated employees, employers and customers with the same rule to be fully engaged, make eye contact and other appropriate signs of caring about the other person. Wow.

I have had the privilege of knowing people that have knowingly or unknowingly given me their undivided attention to show me they care. What a blessing to be on the receiving end.

I will be more aware of this from this day forward. Thank you for the reminder.

By: Ron Kibbe

Ron Kibbe — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 23:53:12 +0000

Phil:

Very cool video. I showed it to my staff yesterday and had a great discussion based upon it. Thanks for the post

By: Mark Foo | TheBigDreamer.com

Mark Foo | TheBigDreamer.com — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 07:10:58 +0000

Thanks so much for sharing this awesome video, Phil. The 90 second rule is so simple, yet it could create such significant impact on one’s life. Simply amazing. I think that is why human beings love dogs so much cos’ when it comes to giving undivided attention, the dogs are the master.

Cheers~

Mark

By: Tim

Tim — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 21:58:01 +0000

Hi Phil:

Thanks for sharing this video and your thoughts. I know this is something I need to work on and something that is important to keep relationships strong. This is important stuff.

By: Hilary

Hilary — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 16:28:15 +0000

Hi Phil .. really good video .. thanks for sharing with us. I try and do this – but perhaps we move on too quickly .. excellent to have had this as a reminder –

Hilary Melton-Butcher
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