Comments on: 5 tips for connecting with people online and offline

By: Jennifer Guise

Jennifer Guise — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 10:00:11 +0000

Thanks for the great post–#3 is so in line with my personal word for the year (yes, also inspired by one of your posts), and I’ve also made a personal commitment regarding relationships. I’m working to reestablish those that have fallen out of touch, and makes some new ones along the way. Thanks so much for the reminder!

By: Jason Kiesau

Jason Kiesau — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 10:25:10 +0000

I think the second point is a huge one. I don’t know who originally said this quote, but I try to live and work by this:

“People don’t care how much you know, unless they know how much you care.”

So . . . CARE for crying out loud. What kind of a place would the world be if everybody gave a crap.

Great post! Great things to think about.

By: Guy Harris

Guy Harris — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 18:22:40 +0000

Hi Phil,

This is a great list. Thanks for this post.

Here’s a thought for tips to connect with others:

Remember that most people want to know that you like them before they want to interact with you. So, be really careful that you don’t come across as selfish, self-serving (echoing your help FIRST tip), or rude. Show an interest in the other person BEFORE you expect them to show an interest in you.

Thanks again for your efforts. I’ll be sending a tweet on this one!

By: Phil Gerbyshak

Phil Gerbyshak — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 05:59:38 +0000

Thanks so much Tammy. Being the real me is all I have to stand on when all is said and done. I’m glad that comes through as a speaker, and as a friend.

By: Tammy Lenski

Tammy Lenski — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 04:16:16 +0000

Hi, Phil! I just wanted to echo #3 and say how true your words are to who you are. When I first met you at the first SOBCon, you were so accessible and warm, and I came to know pretty quickly that it was the real you. Your genuineness is one of the things that attracts people to you and makes you such a compelling speaker … and wonderful friend.